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Episode 27: Mini Moment with Ming: Ask for what you want

Have you ever felt frustrated, resentful, under appreciated, or not valued? Of course you have! We all have felt this at some point or another. On today’s episode, we address how to engage in conversations to seek the changes we want.

1. Be Direct

Instead of being wishy washy using words like maybe you want to, you might, could we try... Just go for it. Spit out exactly what you want.

2. Ask Courageously

Know your value and worth and make the ask courageously and confidently.

3. Be specific and clear.

It is important to know the 'what', but it is equally important to know the 'when' and the 'how'. Having a clear picture of our outcome is ideal to the result that you desire.


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